Original poster: Jim Lux <jimlux@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Just to get anyone interested in the ballpark:  2.45 GHz is 12.2 
cm.  The effective aperture of a 6 cm long dipole is about 1/8th 
square wavelength, or roughly 18 square centimeters.  So a dipole 
will intercept about 40 mW at the ANSI exposure limit.  Into 72 ohms 
(the impedance of the dipole), this works out to about 1.6-2.7 volts.
A smaller probe intercepts less power.  Make it 1 cm, and you 
intercept 1/36th the power (about 1 mW) and the voltage is 
correspondingly smaller (a bit less than a volt).
A variety of diodes will work.  What you want is a zero bias planar 
schottky or an old germanium (1n34, for instance).  But, almost 
anything will work (1n914, 1n5711, etc.)